Direktlänk till inlägg 22 april 2014
When I was a little girl I was often compared to other children.
When I grew up I heared that other children were smarter, kinder, more ambitious, less noisy, more helpful, less clumsy... it almost hurts to try to remember it all.
Eventually I did start BELIEVING that:
1) I am actually WORSE than others
2) it was OK to compare people with each other.
Now I have UNDERSTOOD that comparing, especially SMALL children with each other, is so unfair and so NOT stimulating. This one was easy, because I would never like any child feel the way I felt...
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The other part is so much harder to REPAIR. Because it is within me. I actually STILL BELIEVE WHAT I WAS TOLD SO MANY TIMES.I even drowe myself into a burnout trying to prove to myslef (and others?) that I am WORTHY just like anyone else!
How do I BE-FRIEND those past SHADOWS?
I figure: BY AFFIRMING that I am OK! Not better or worse than anyone else, just OK, GOOD ENOUGH.
Even if it is hard to belive in at first... Fake it til you make it! - as they say.
Affirmation is a declaration that something is true.
I now CHOOSE my own TRUTHS instead of someone else's!
Affirmation of Truth and Love to All.
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